Love bites – the expression of love!

I have seen a lot of people finding ways to hide their love bites. I understand that we live in a conservative society and your parents finding out your love bites can be catastrophic, but hiding it when you don’t need it and trying to portray yourself as Sati-Savitri of 21^st century – that is something that itches me most.

Love bites are beautiful. They are gorgeous.  A love bite doesn’t mean you are a slut or a whore. It means you have an active sex life, which sadly majority of the people don’t, and that you are quite proud of it. Flaunting a love bite means you have someone who loves you. According to me, it’s even better than an engagement ring! A ring implies that you are tied in a relationship but a love bite signifies that you are having some really good time and others must definitely be jealous of you.

Trust me, all the people who are trying to judge you because of the mark that has been left on your neck or body by your lover – all these people are merely jealous and to justify the same, they are trying to make it look derogatory. But it’s not!

Coming to the art of giving love bites – well it’s not exactly a bite. You don’t try to rip off the flesh and neither you bite like kids when they try to get off your tight grip. It’s not about giving an absolute form of pain. It’s about giving a teasing pain which intensifies with every passing second. Which makes your partner demand more of it. Love bites make things intense very rapidly and if you want to fast forward while skipping a few steps – love bites with passionate hugging is the perfect solution.

What exactly you are supposed to do to give a love bite? Better watch some youtube videos! Yes, they do have videos for that! I just wanted to highlight the importance of same!

5 other things to do with sex - The next level!

Is it something to just do, enjoy or something that makes you question your entire way of existing on this planet as you realize that there is no way you can again be that same old person? Yes, some experiences can do that to you.

lets read on about another idea of S.E.X. - the star taboo of our country, the famous hush word and one of the guilty pleasures (well most of society actually). You can have any of the flavors of this ice cream but the point is a bit of sprinkles on the top are always helping. So let’s have a look at those sprinklers which can change and enhance the entire experience:

1.      Role Playing: Act out your fantasies in a very realistic manner with your partner to take things to the next level – from an innocent role playing talk to an elaborate acting out scenarios, it’s your pick.

2.      Blindfolds: Now many of you would say that, oh come on! This is Kink now. But the blindfolds are an excellent way of discovering someone’s body in a very new light. It can reveal erogenous areas which are usually non-existent to the normal eye. Skin talks you know! You just need to learn the language.

3.      A break from ‘curling the toes’: Now the intelligible don’t need a second explicit reference for that. This time you can try leaving your partner right on the edge of arriving, then follow that up with some good ol’ foreplay for a few seconds and then returning back in time to complete what you left in the middle. That, my dear reader, has actually proven to heighten the experience for the receiving end.

4.      Make-up sex – You must’ve heard of this but when you give your best in winning an argument, then why not do the same afterwards in bed, as a reward for both the parties. What can be better than heightened intensity, writhing hot bodies/temper, and a need to get close to your loved one – No we are not talking about a fight this time are we?

5.      Food/sex date (Recommended highly for Foodies): Oh there are quite a few amongst us who would love to go on a date and have amazing food and later take the dessert to bed, or at least later in bed. Can there be anything better than bringing home your date (Probable mutual interest in gastronomy), cooking together to create a great meal, exchanging thoughts and clever kisses in the middle, and then enjoying the meal (Maybe not just the meal).

I will leave the rest to your imagination! Have some safe, consenting fun.

5 things you must do with sex!

So do you actually plan what all you will be doing at your big night to make it special? Or you just want to go with the flow? Whatever it is, there are a few things which you must add on with the real sex session that you are going to have. Doesn't matter you like it rough or you want to go slow, there are a few things which if done, will make the entire night more intimate and pleasurable:

1.       Music and fragranced candles

Some soft instrumental music and fragranced candles can do wonders. Choice is yours. Just get lost between the melody and your partner and enjoy the ecstatic union in a way never before while the flickering golden flames highlights your partner’s face. It looks nothing but divine! You can also prefer music with lyrics which can have all the favorite songs of you and your partner. Sing along together and enjoy.

2.       Chocolates smooches

This is one simple way to make things so much more intense! Dairy Milk is the epitome of pleasure if you are wondering which chocolate to pick up! Let the warmth of your lips melt it and you are not sure what gives you more pleasure – chocolate or kissing?

3.       Fruits and alcohol

If chocolate is not your thing or you are not a great fan of same, go for some juicy fruits. Mangoes and strawberries are extremely erotic. If you take alcohol, you can have some beer too. Pour it wherever you want and drink it all. You think it’s weird? Trust me; there is nothing weird or crazy when it comes to sex! Fascinations of human mind are much beyond your understanding!

4.       Flavored Cigars

Are you one of those couples who like to talk after sex? If not, try doing it once. After sex, you are emotional, vulnerable and your mind is clear. You have just experienced the heaven and you are gratified. Now, just have a little chit-chat while sharing a chocolate cigar. It will help you bond emotionally in a better way!

5.       Cuddle

Yes, last and final stage! Sex is incomplete without cuddling! Even if you are not having sex, you must cuddle! It is the most intimate thing you can ever do with your partner!

And well, if you like this, you might want to read my biography! Check it out here!

Let’s talk about Sex education!

After the statement of our esteemed politician about banning sex education in schools, there was a huge upheaval everywhere. I was actually delighted to see that people were talking about it, criticizing it over social platforms and that too in masses. It’s a complete pleasure to see youth sharing their views about such an intense issue which is being mocked by the government in the name of culture and religion.

Let’s ponder over the source of sex education in current scenario. Obviously parents are not talking about it. They actually change the channel when some intimate scene is about to come or there is an advertisement of condom. Some of them can’t even watch the deodorant ads while sitting with their kids. So parents are out of question – most of the time. Next are teachers. Remember the reproduction chapter in biology book in school? Were all your questions entertained? Was your teacher comfortable talking about it? If they were, it’s brilliant. In some institutions, teachers are doing a great job but mostly in two tier or three tier cities, they fail to do so. Next option is elder brothers or sisters and friends in school who themselves have half baked knowledge about it.

Curiosity is a bitch and it can make you do things you wouldn't have imagined yourself.

It was one of the line from my biography and it fits perfectly well while we are dealing with the psychology of students in school. Such half baked knowledge can destroy everything. Not having knowledge is dangerous, but having wrong knowledge is even disastrous. Especially in India where chauvinism and patriarchy dominates the entire society, any kind of wrong perceptions can make any kid a potential rapist. It might sound too farfetched but sadly, it’s true.

They often link the entire sex scene with the influence of western countries but they fail to accept that modernization and westernization are two entirely different concepts and must not be confused. But we don’t really have such intellectual people in the cabinet, do we? Even if we do, might be they are too afraid to be bold and are following the same rudimentary thinking and approach. Development of infrastructure, jobs and everything else is indeed significant but what about the social development? What about the development of mentality of major population of country which is still not ready to accept that sex is natural and talking about the same should not be a taboo. And who will bring the change or reform?

If they want to argue that we must follow our culture, let’s do it completely then. Let’s bring Sati Pratha back and burn the widows with their deceased husbands. Let’s get back to the time cast system and untouchablity was at its utmost glory. Let’s bring polygamy back for god’s sake! I remember almost all our prime mythological characters having more than one wife or husband. Are you ready to do that all? If not, please admit that culture and society is prone to change according to the time and development. And while you establish that in your mind concretely, be ready and prepare yourself more changes which are readily required in society.

The Art of Undressing!

I don't know how many of you have given it enough importance because most of the time people are so sex deprived that all they care about is ‘Main course’ and starters appetizers remotely matters. But well, appetizers are called appetizers for a reason! Isn’t it? I hope you get where I am drifting towards. Enough of food reference, so coming back.

So undressing, as far as I believe, is extremely crucial. It not only stimulates things but it also helps you to understand your partner’s psychology and you can act accordingly before the session takes a sharp intense turn. Sex is not just about two bodies mingling. If you want to enjoy it to the fullest, it demands a lot of intellect and presence of mind because it’s not just about your pleasure and your desires alone, it’s about you two as a whole.

I am not talking about strip tease. You can do it if you are good at it though. But yes, in general, when you are smooching passionately and clothes seems like an excessive burden that you must get rid of – this is the point where the major transition happens. You are definitely horny and getting out of control but you must remember that removing your own clothes is not appreciated. You must undress your partner and vice versa. That too not in a single go. Take it slow. Enjoy each and every moment. Feel it just as passionately as you can and then go for it.

Take the upper cloth off and explore the bare body you just discovered. Focus on what you have got rather than what future holds for you. Kiss every part of it and then move on to the bottoms. Unbutton it slowly. There are few who have mastered the art of unbuttoning with their mouths but you need not feel inferior if you don’t know it. Rub your body against each other and when your partner is undressing you, you can either decide to cooperate or to tease by resisting. Now it depends on your chemistry and how playful you want to make it.

It’s tough to control when you know you can just skip that all and get to the main thing, but trust me, it’s worth it and you are gonna love every inch of it. Also, pay special attention when you are on innerwear. Be slow, be gentle. Use tip of your fingers sensationally on the boundary of the innerwear. It can be ticklish if you don’t do it properly so just be smooth. Don’t remove it in a go and rather slid your hand inside first and feel it. Your lips must obviously be busy somewhere else. Sex is all about multi tasking you see!

Well after you both are undressed completely; I won’t tell what to do next. At least not now! Maybe in the next post! Till then, keep enjoying, keep having sex! It makes you happy and healthy and there is nothing wrong in talking about it, doing it or reading about it – as simple as that!

And I start blogging!

I have been thinking to blog since so long. I have been watching blogs of so many high profile escorts who have been sharing their experiences and views. I myself follow few of those. And well, I thought why shouldn't I start blogging too? I have lot to say as well ;)

I have been doing so many things altogether and I hardly get time but still, I will try to emerge as a strong voice. Wish me good luck in this journey!